Dear Speed Seduction® Masters-In-Training,
Since today is Independence Day here in the United States, I want to share with you some thoughts about magic and freedom.
There is magic in the mastery of using language to capture and lead imagination and emotions.
There is the magic of knowing what to notice that remains invisible to the eye of most.
And, then, there is the deeper magic.
The magic of being willing to step into the unknown AND freeing the other person of any expectation about how THEY should respond or will respond.
Truly freeing them.
As in willing and able to ground yourself into a place of energetic acceptance (they can do whatever they want, **I** control where my energy goes) of their first response, whatever it may be. You are going to respond by staying grounded and holding compassion.
That doesn’t mean you STAY there or make their first response YOUR permanent “truth” about the situation.
Here is why this is so powerful, and why this brings you freedom:
Even the hottest woman has areas of her life where she feels stuck. Things or ways of being or feeling she’s like to try but doesn’t. And she wants reassurance BEFORE she steps out of the boat – so she stays in the boat and just watches the waves and wonders. EVERY WOMAN HAS A PART OF HER LIFE WHERE THIS IS SO.
So when she sees you, a person WILLING to step into what is unknown for you, willing to be open and vulnerable (but not needy) with life and living that is sexy.
She won’t be able to explain it, she’ll feel it.
By itself, that is sexy.
Now, so many people, when they finally do have a way to step beyond their comfort zone are SO filled with expectations and demands on the situation and on others.
“Hey, I opened up to you. I risked. Now I DEMAND you open up back”
So when you open up and step beyond the known as a choice for yourself WITH NO DEMANDS AT ALL ON THE OTHER PERSON, that freedom, that “not doing”, that “vacuum” around you creates a pull forward.
You place no pressure. You have no “push” on them at all.
There is no-thing for them to resist.
These two elements combined create a deeper magic few will ever even see.
And the two elements don’t add up.
They MULTIPLY.
So it’s not 100 points of attractive vibe PLUS 100 points of attractive vibe.
It’s 100 points times 100 points. That’s 10,000 points of attractive vibe.
Now, add to that:
Basic walk up energies that enable you to effortlessly approach any woman, any time, anywhere.
Language skills.
The energetic touch secrets.
I think that puts you up near the 20,000 points of attraction – right out of the gate.
None of this requires arrogant swagger or being a loudmouth.
And NONE OF IT REQUIRES ANY PAST “SUCCESS”.
You can have it now, in a heartbeat, in between the passing of one second to the next, in between the fading of this thought and the arising of the next.
Strip away the nonsense and crap that has swirled and guess what:
YOU ALREADY ARE THIS.
You just have to be quiet enough to remember.
And in that, there is freedom that goes beyond words.
Peace and piece,
RJ
P.S. Imagine a life that has no further need for assurance or guarantee of success of any kind before you took bold (and fun) seduction steps, where you walk like a giant where other people fear to step.
No matter what is holding you back, now is the time to break free of the chains, get off your excuse-making, “I understand but don’t do it” ass, and get moving right now in the real world with the success you’ve always wanted.
